Sunday, 27 January 2019
To Tinder Or Not To Tinder
I mean, at the moment, I'm not really that fussed about dating. I'm liking life single. And well, we all know how depressed I get when I start going online and see the dross I have to put up with.
However, on the phone the other day to my agent, discussing future books, my writing career etc. etc. etc. and she said something about the online dating I'd used in the book that's been rejected; it didn't have the swiping left and right which is associated with online dating. And I replied, that is only if you want a shag. Those genuinely wanting to find a relationship actually look at profiles and message. And besides, I was basing my fictional online dating site on something like Plenty Of Fish, where there is the 'Meet Me' facility. But you don't need to swipe to message one another. You can view profiles and send messages without swiping. The 'Meet Me' is actually a paid for option.
I think those that haven't used online dating, don't realise that it is not the only way to meet people. Different sites work in different ways. And I tried to incorporate that into the 'rejected' book. (Book 4 as it's the 4th book I've written).
So, I'm thinking, having NEVER been on Tinder, should I go on there and see what the whole swiping left and right thing does?
Or do I want to get sucked into another dating app which will waste my life and make me miserable.
But it's for research...
Anyone been on Tinder... can you recommend?
Labels: author, dating, love, on-line dating, online dating, Plenty of Fish, research, romance, single, single mums, singleton, Tinder, writing
Granola-Dust-Obsessed Mum to 2 boys and a budgie, romance novelist, RNA & Society of Authors member. Apologies for my randomness, I'm The Wittering Woman